Love is defined my many in many ways. Well, to me, i think its a promise, a connection and a feeling we have towards someone. A promise that is made by two person. A connection that can't be seen. And also a feeling we feel with someone. There are many ways for us to be in love or to feel love. But i won't waste my time giving examples on that. Different people have different thought on it. :)
Anyways, the main thing i want to highlight is that, studies show that the side-effects we get when we're feeling loved are sweaty palms, fast beating heart, a also a messy mind. However, note that, this are also side-effects of fear. Like being afraid of something bad might happen.
So, what i have concluded is, love is also fear but with the trust that the person we gave out heart to will not break it or drop it. When a certain person hugs us in that lovely manner, or gives a peck on our cheeks, forehead or our lips, we trust that they won't hurt us physically. This is because our trust for them over-powers our fear of that happening, hence, we feel love. But that does not ignore the side-effects.
Of course, this is just an assumption and i do believe that love is really a feeling we can never explain. It's more than just stars over us, butterflies in our tummy and being happy. Also note that, when we're with a person you love, another side-effect is excessive smiling. :) And that i think its one of the best.
Well, it's obvious enough that love in cannot be defined. But, hey, at least i tried.
I miss having an excessive smile though. It's been awhile.
Then again, I don't think i got it figured out.
Yours truly.
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